If serious
relationships are hard to make and harder to keep, imagine relationships built
on mutual love, it is kind of impossible.
In this not
we will suppose that the woman loves her man and he loves her back. If your man
doesn’t love you and he cheats or tries to cheat and/or you don’t love him, don’t
forgive him! Break up with him and go search for something else.
You may say
if a man loves his woman he will never try to cheat on her, not even think
about it. Well, in this note I will give you the reasons causing a man to cheat
and if you and if you think one of the reasons or more are present in your
relationship, you have to forgive him for trying to cheat.
So here are 5 reasons why women should forgive men when they try to cheat:
- Sexual or emotional Satisfaction: If you are thinking about preserving your virginity till your marriage, or you think emotional relationships are overrated. Well honey, don’t wait for your man to adapt to your opinion! Especially when it comes to physical intercourses. It is hard, even impossible for a man who tried sex before to stop thinking about it and doing it for a long time. Emotional part is important for the man, when a man is in a mutual love relationship he is usually romantic and he waits for the other half to be the same. Men want to have the same love relationships they see by mistake in movies.
- A change is needed: If the relationship gets to the point where you have routine, a change is needed. You can try new things as a couple, do new stuff, enjoy new games, and do new challenges. If you don’t change anything or when he tries to change some stuff you say no, he will start feeling imprisoned. Men tend to get bored easily, do something. If a change doesn’t happen in the relationship, the man will start looking away for stuff to stop the feeling of boredom he has. Cheating is always the best solution.
- The heart loves you, other parts not always: A man doesn’t always use his mind and less than that the left part where you have emotions like love. A man rarely thinks, he is always haunted by his physical needs so even if he loves you sometimes he can’t control his body especially when he loses control of his mind by substance or alcohol use. Don’t judge us, we are closer to animals than you think.
- Guilt caused by personal reflection: It is something a man usually does after every act he makes, and if your man really loves you, he will, after the act of cheating or even the attempt, feel guilty as hell and think about you more and more. The time he will spend thinking will eat him from inside. However, you need to confront him with his acts, else he will get cocky by thinking he got away with his actions and the feeling of pride and happiness will cover the guilt he feels. Confront him with his actions, that will only leave him with the feeling of guilt and that will torture him enough. Then you can forgive him because he went through a lot.
- Ruining beautiful things: If you have something unique and special, if your relationship was so amazing why ruin it? If he is sorry for his actions and he still loves you truly, why fuck up everything and then leave in regret for the rest of your life? We ruin stuff and then regret it. Give a second chance, everybody deserves one even a cheating filthy son of a bitch (sorry for the words, I hate cheaters). Don’t leave in regret, try it again and if it doesn’t work leave him. It is always better to regret something you did, then something you didn’t.
Men don’t
deserve your trust but they do deserve your love. Women aren’t less cheating
then men; actually a study has shown that women cheat on serious relationships
more than men do. However, if your man loves you and you are not a cheating
girlfriend/wife, well talk to him, ask him about it and if he still loves you,
give him a second chance, he will be better. Try to enjoy the good thing you
have and don’t ruin them for some stupid act done in a stupid moment. Solve
your problems together people.
Satisfy
your man, and even if you sexually can’t, try to cover it by satisfying him
otherwise because you really can make him forget that. He will not forget it,
he will pretend he did, and he will make more efforts hide it and control it
because you are giving him other stuff to think about. And that’s applicable with
all the other needs, not only sexual ones.
W.H
