Why women should forgive men when they try to cheat

If serious relationships are hard to make and harder to keep, imagine relationships built on mutual love, it is kind of impossible.

In this not we will suppose that the woman loves her man and he loves her back. If your man doesn’t love you and he cheats or tries to cheat and/or you don’t love him, don’t forgive him! Break up with him and go search for something else.

You may say if a man loves his woman he will never try to cheat on her, not even think about it. Well, in this note I will give you the reasons causing a man to cheat and if you and if you think one of the reasons or more are present in your relationship, you have to forgive him for trying to cheat.

So here are 5 reasons why women should forgive men when they try to cheat:

•           Sexual or emotional Satisfaction: If you are thinking about preserving your virginity till your marriage, or you think emotional relationships are overrated. Well honey, don’t wait for your man to adapt to your opinion! Especially when it comes to physical intercourses. It is hard, even impossible for a man who tried sex before to stop thinking about it and doing it for a long time. Emotional part is important for the man, when a man is in a mutual love relationship he is usually romantic and he waits for the other half to be the same. Men want to have the same love relationships they see by mistake in movies.
•           A change is needed: If the relationship gets to the point where you have routine, a change is needed. You can try new things as a couple, do new stuff, enjoy new games, and do new challenges. If you don’t change anything or when he tries to change some stuff you say no, he will start feeling imprisoned. Men tend to get bored easily, do something. If a change doesn’t happen in the relationship, the man will start looking away for stuff to stop the feeling of boredom he has. Cheating is always the best solution.
•           The heart loves you, other parts not always: A man doesn’t always use his mind and less than that the left part where you have emotions like love. A man rarely thinks, he is always haunted by his physical needs so even if he loves you sometimes he can’t control his body especially when he loses control of his mind by substance or alcohol use. Don’t judge us, we are closer to animals than you think.
•           Guilt caused by personal reflection: It is something a man usually does after every act he makes, and if your man really loves you, he will, after the act of cheating or even the attempt, feel guilty as hell and think about you more and more. The time he will spend thinking will eat him from inside. However, you need to confront him with his acts, else he will get cocky by thinking he got away with his actions and the feeling of pride and happiness will cover the guilt he feels. Confront him with his actions, that will only leave him with the feeling of guilt and that will torture him enough. Then you can forgive him because he went through a lot.
•           Ruining beautiful things: If you have something unique and special, if your relationship was so amazing why ruin it? If he is sorry for his actions and he still loves you truly, why fuck up everything and then leave in regret for the rest of your life? We ruin stuff and then regret it. Give a second chance, everybody deserves one even a cheating filthy son of a bitch (sorry for the words, I hate cheaters). Don’t leave in regret, try it again and if it doesn’t work leave him.  It is always better to regret something you did, then something you didn’t.

Men don’t deserve your trust but they do deserve your love. Women aren’t less cheating then men; actually a study has shown that women cheat on serious relationships more than men do. However, if your man loves you and you are not a cheating girlfriend/wife, well talk to him, ask him about it and if he still loves you, give him a second chance, he will be better. Try to enjoy the good thing you have and don’t ruin them for some stupid act done in a stupid moment. Solve your problems together people.

Satisfy your man, and even if you sexually can’t, try to cover it by satisfying him otherwise because you really can make him forget that. He will not forget it, he will pretend he did, and he will make more efforts hide it and control it because you are giving him other stuff to think about. And that’s applicable with all the other needs, not only sexual ones.

                                                                                                           W.H

Why You shouldn't join AIESEC

I've joined AIESEC since October 2011 and I loved it so much. Through these two years I've learnt so much and developed myself, my hard and soft skills and for sure learnt how to become a better leader. I became someone who thinks about others, and wants to improve himself, develop people around him and change his country for the best. However, if you know the good stuff about something you experienced you must as well know the bad stuff about it. So here are 5 reasons why you shouldn't join AIESEC:

•           Early into real work: You are still a student, one or two years in the university, or you maybe just joined it, and you find yourself already working for some organization, having a full time job, contacting enterprises and meeting CEOs, organizing professional events, managing people, leading a team through a certain period, being part of a team, doing plans and backup plans, thinking about how to use your resources in a perfect way. You will become a professional since a young age while you’re still in college.
•           Your CV will be hard to write: Usually, normal CVs don’t take more than two minutes to write and prepare, yours will take at least hours. After joining AIESEC, with all the experience you have, the skills you developed and the things you've done, you wouldn't be able to make them fit on a 2 page CV.  It will be so hard for you to list them all on a single CV, it is a hard task come on.
•           You’ll lose all prejudges you have: You have prejudged a certain race, certain country or certain region? In AIESEC, you will lose them all. You will meet a lot of new people from different countries, different races and different regions in national or international conferences. You will visit a lot of new countries and get to know their true culture. You will have friends there, and by that you will lose everything bad you have in mind about them because you will know them for what they truly are. You will finally figure out that you were wrong and end up changing your mind about the world.
•           Your contact list will be too damn long: Networking is one of the most important things in AIESEC. You will have a huge network of professionals you worked with on events, you will have a network of friends you met on conferences and people you engaged by AIESEC activities. So you will have a lot of visit cards and you will a hard time organizing your contact list and that will drive you crazy.
•           You will grow mature and join a cause: You are still young; you want to have fun, party and live your life to the fullest. You can’t believe that you will be wearing a suit and tie and going to important meetings. You are still young for big causes and that complicated stuff. In AIESEC, you will learn the value of volunteering, you’ll be part of a non for profit organization and will work for free, you will start believing in a certain cause, defending it and actually fighting for it. You will try to change the world and achieve peace.

The thing about AIESEC is that once you join it you go to a completely new level. You change your mindset, you will join a professional world, you will experience leadership in every action you make, and you will become an entrepreneur and have the chance to develop yourself in a Global Learning Environment.

You will change lives, impact society, help people, join a cause, develop skills, become a Leader, get to be an entrepreneur, become better and seek the best for the world, for your country, for people around you and for yourself. You will become a Change Agent.

So what is your excuse not to join this magnificent world?

What’s your excuse not to join AIESEC?

Join Now.

Register online for a life changing experience.

                                                                                                                             W.H

Why I write about love even if I don’t feel it

I started writing since I was 11 or 12 years old, I write articles, notes, poems and small stories. I started writing in Arabic and during my high school years I switched completely to English. It has been almost 10 years that I write frequently and I stop writing rarely and that happens when I lack completely of inspiration. During these 10 years, I won two prizes for my Arabic poems and got the recognition of anyone who read my writings: teachers, friends, family, writers…

During these 10 years, 75% of what I write was about love even if I almost don’t have feeling, and I've never loved once in my entire existence. So here are five reasons why I write about love even if I don’t feel it:

•           It is beautiful: You have to admit that everyone loves love and think it is cute to love and to be loved and some wise man once said: “Talk to people in their own language”. The notes I write about my life, my troubles, my mistakes and what I endure every day I leave them for me. When I share something with people I have to make sure they like it and may actually care about it. So I write about love because it is beautiful, it is amazing and it interests people.
•           It is good to lie sometimes: We are sick of our reality, sick of the stupidity of people, of the endless problems and the strange things that happen every day. So yes, writing is my shelter, I run to it every time I am fed up with this life and the reality of things, and what’s the use of running from life to writing if you’re going to write about life and about the reality? So I don’t write about life, I prefer to escape and go deep into my imagination and I write about things that never happened, a love that I've never felt, a lover that I've never met and stuff that I've never witnessed. It’s good to lie sometimes it sets you free, it gives you the opportunity to live in ideal worlds better than the one we live in.
•           Being wanted instead of being seen as a play boy: Yes, I do have the reputation of a player, which, if you ask me, has nothing to do with the truth. I stopped being the play boy and heart breaker years ago. I am now a gentleman. However, it seems that you can never escape your past no matter how hard you try and change, so people still see me as a player and that’s unfortunate because I am a good guy now. So I write about love and feelings. I sound really in love and full of emotions, I almost look heartbroken and on the edge of giving up life because of a lost love and sometimes being able to sacrifice my existence for the happiness of the loved one. All of this makes me the total opposite of the heartless douche bag, they think I am. It makes me look romantic and sensitive. It makes me look like the guy who treats a girl he loves like a princess, the guy who knows how to love a Lady, how to respect a queen and worship a goddess. So girls think that I have a lucky lover and they envy her for all the things I write about and for her and all the love I have for her and that doesn't only make wanted among girls, it also makes me a challenge.
•           Lack of emotions: It may seem so not true to you but in my life I don’t have too many emotions. I am not an emotional guy, it is rare for me to feel happy or glad or excited and it is impossible for me to feel love. The only kind of emotions I get is the bad ones, it happens that I feel mad, angry, fed up and bored and it is rare for me to feel sad. However, even this kind of emotions doesn't happen often. So whenever I get any of them I focus on it and turn it into something good so even when I am angry, bored or even sad I turn this feeling into a beautiful thing and instead of writing about dark stuff I write about cute stuff that people like, so I write about Love.
•           Something is missing: It is obvious after all that you read in this note so far that love is missing in my life. Hell, it is the only thing that I haven’t experienced yet. I’ve never felt it and don’t think I will be feeling it ever, at least not soon. So yes, I write about the thing I never experienced. Don’t we all think too much about the things we don’t have and imagine how would our lives be if we had them? Yes we do, and that’s why I write a lot about love, in order to imagine it and imagine what would I do and how would the life be if I had it. I write about love because I love imagination, and it wouldn't be imagining things if I wrote about something I do have. I write about love because it is good to lie as long as you are not hurting anyone. I write about love because as long as I don’t feel it, I have nowhere else to live it but within my writings.

It may seem a lie to some of you and it may seem pathetic to the others but it is only the truth to me. I write about love because I like to and because I enjoy it and if you think that everything I told in my other notes is nothing but a lie I have to tell you that it is not because I am sure I will be doing and feeling the same things I wrote about and even more once I meet the girl that will make me finally fall in love. I just haven’t found her yet, maybe I met her already but haven’t discovered her yet.

                                                                              With any kind of emotions I may get.

                                                                                                   W.H

Why you should treat women nicely

Contrarily to what you think, this is not the second part of why you should say nice words to women! The first one was made in the month “Anti Women” and this one is written from the heart with love. We hear all the time that women are all the same, that they don’t deserve neither our love nor our respect, that when you give them your love they just give it away, that they are never sure of what they do and they are trouble makers, but the truth is that men have the same defects, the same flaws and even worse than women. So here are 5 reasons why you should treat women nicely.

•           They are the reason you are alive: We all know that without women we wouldn’t exist, you may say and without men women wouldn’t exist. That’s true but who suffers more when giving birth to a baby? All we, men, do is watch them suffer giving birth to beautiful creatures and we don’t feel any suffering. I am sure that if we were the ones to endure that kind of pain to give birth to children we would say, and that’s the case at least for me: “Fuck children, who needs them anyway?” and life on earth would’ve stopped long time ago. Good choice on this one Lord.
•           They are the most beautiful thing on earth: I’ve seen the nature in its most beautiful images, been everywhere and I’ve never been attracted to a something beautiful as much as I am always attracted to women beauty. Beauty in all its ways can be found when you look at a woman and listen to her; the beauty of her eyes, her lips, her body and her voice…
•           They bring drama to our lives: This may seem strange to you but it is something w should thank women for. I truly believe in the two sayings: “You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness” and “We are addicted to pain, stress and drama”. What would life be if everything was nice and amazing? What would life be without few mistakes, some troubles and some drama, sadness and pain? It would be without colors, unbearable and tasteless.
•           They bring joy to our lives: Women are the reason why we are happy! I know they are not always the reason because football, beer and video games make us happy, however you will be a lot more happy if you share these moments with a woman and you know that it is true, who doesn’t want to have a woman who love football, supports his favorite team, drinks beer with him and tries to beat him on Fifa? They make us laugh with their stupid actions; hugging them and kissing them make you feel pure happiness.
•           They make us what we are: What are we without women? What is the life without them? Who will make us fall in love? Who will make us feel jealous? To be possessive or protective? Who will drive us crazy? Who will make us be men? Who will make us beautiful? Who will give us a reason to exist? Who will be the beauty in this life?

Women are too precious to be left alone, too beautiful to be hated, too fragile to be played with...

Women you are amazing, just the way you are, keep on being You; Keep on being Women.

We love you; at least, I know I do. 

                                                                                                       W.H

Why you should wish sarah mabkhout a happy birthday

I’ve never been good at saying nice people to the people I love, I find it hard because saying the things we feel only makes them without a meaning and kind of cheap. So I have been always insulting the people close to me and only telling them their defects and flaws because I believe that my love for them should appear in my actions not in my words. However, tonight I am making an exception for the birthday of a little Lady who is so important to me. So here are five reasons why you should wish a happy birthday to Sarah Mabkhout:

•           She is ugly: Come on guys, it is already hard for her to be ugly… The Lord wants us to be kind with each other and try to help each other. She has always been ugly, I guess since the day she was born (I saw a picture of her when she was 2 years old and I can assure you she has always been that way) and the problem is that not only is she ugly but she just started wearing braces and believe me… It is hell… Be nice to her; help her cope with this amount of ugliness.
•           She is lonely: nobody loves her and that’s a fact. Well, to not exaggerate let’s say, there are only two or three people who love her, the rest just can’t stand the idea that she exists. It is a hard thing to live with, and we still don’t know the reason why people hate her. Come on she is not that bad. So let’s try to be nice to her once, and not let her live her birthday alone AGAIN and let’s wish her a happy birthday.
•           She is only 16 or 17 years old: It is so hard for young children to be hated by everyone, feel lonely and be ugly at the same time. This could lead this child to commit suicide and we don’t want that. Well some of us do but hey… That’s not a good thing. We don’t want more suicides in these times after all she can improve, there are a lot of solutions like plastic surgeries for example. So people let’s be kind and make her smile for the first time in her life. Save the childhood. :p
•           She is Stupid: I’ve met a lot of stupid people, so I am used to dealing with them. However, this girl makes me feel that I’ve never dealt with stupid people before. She is blonde, only in her way of thinking and acting, no physical detail linked to blondes :p. She has a way of making you believe that you are talking to the most retarded person on earth. So by wishing her a happy birthday, you can make her easily believe that she is loved by everyone, even if you are obviously lying.
•           She is Innocent: Yes, we say that the saying: “the real beauty is the beauty of the soul”, was created by ugly people and that’s probably true. However, with this Lady, you have to look for the beauty of the soul (because obviously you have nothing else to stare at :p), she tries to look smart and to make us believe she is intelligent, when the truth is that she is stupid and so innocent that even when she tries to look or act the opposite way she can’t. That beautiful soul, that innocence, that big heart and the amazing person she is, is what makes me try to be nice for once in my life.

Yes, she has pretty much all the flaws and defects known to a man, however in a strange way she is awesome. Her Flaws and defects are combined in a way that makes her personality attractive when you get to know her. She is an amazing person to be with, a trust worthy friend, and a nice person to know, that’s what pushed me to write a message about her in my personal blog.

Keep shining little Lady, best wishes for your birthday. May the Lord make all your wishes come true and help you cope with your miserable existence :p, Don’t hate me for telling the truth!

                                                                                                                W.H

Why You should spread the smiles

We live in a crazy world, ugly life and tough days. We are addicted to pain, stress and drama. Our existence is about sadness and troubles, and as soon as we grow up a little bit and start to think we forget how to enjoy the small things and how to be happy until we forget how to smile, how to laugh. So here are five reasons why you should always smile:

•           It is pretty: We can’t deny this, everyone does know it. People are a lot prettier when they are smiling. I didn’t see a sad person or an angry human being who looked more beautiful than he does when he is smiling. Smile for beauty, smile it is charming!
•           It is healthy: A lot of researchers confirmed that smiling is healthy; it can prevent us from a lot of illnesses especially the mental illnesses. Smiling actually can increase the days we are estimated to live. So why kill ourselves slowly, when we have the key to immortality?
•           It is international: Smiles are the international language, who can’t understand what you mean when you smile? It means you are happy, it means you are in love, it means you are satisfied, it means you are proud and it means you see hope. Who doesn’t love the smile? Who doesn’t talk with smiles? It is an international way of communicating.
•           It is a mood changer: Actually, and I am talking from experience, when you start your day with a smile everything will go smoothly and you will be happy all the day. When you start your day with a smile, you will keep on smiling whatever happens to you and that helps you cope with the situation and find better solutions. Actually when you face troubles with a smile, they will go away because you will not complicate your life and you will try to get the best solution.
•           It is contagious: Smiles are contagious; if you smile to someone he will smile back to you. If someone is feeling bad or sad and you smile to him, it may change his mood and make him feel a little bit better, because people are there for him. If you smile at people more often, people will love you a lot more. If you keep smiling, people will always smile when they see you. If you keep smiling, you will spread the smiles all over the places you will go, you will give the people a good thing to see on your face. You will work more and help people around you be more productive. You will have a reason to live for, which is making people smile and what a noble cause you will live for. You will give people hope, that they can be happy and that life is nothing but a small journey where we need to be happy.

Smiling is the best thing to do in your life; it influences your daily decisions and your daily mood, in a good way. Smiling can help you live longer and better. Smiling can influence people around you. By smiling you spread love and peace.

Spreading the smiles is the new cause so like our page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Spread-the-Smiles/365968663522076

Have your own smiling cover photo and join the cause.

                                                                                                                  W.H

Why you should go on a humanitarian internship abroad

You may have heard about the humanitarian internships that AIESEC offers. You can choose between 125 countries, an internship that lasts between 6 and 8 weeks. You keep hearing about it and people encourage you to go for it but you have no idea why they do that. So here are 5 reasons why you should go on a volunteering internship with AIESEC:

•           Improve your skills: Have you ever heard about volunteering internships? Are you interested in working in community services? Well, this is your only chance with the volunteering internships abroad you can improve skills like: Leadership skills, presentation skills, social skills and even your English.
•           New Challenge: Life is getting boring… This is a fact, everyone is feeling it… This is the chance to shake your existence, this is your chance to live a life changing experience… These internships are your only chance to live a new experience, to discover new countries and by which you make a change in your life. What’s life without some challenges that bring joy and strong feelings to your life and that make you achieve something.
•           Enlarge your Network: Go to places you’ve never been before, discover new people and new cultures. Going on an internship with AIESEC will give you the opportunity to make new friends from all the corners of the globe and these friendships will last for a long time. You will end up with friend in every country around the world.
•           Impact the world: Have you ever dreamt about changing the world and making it a better place? There is a saying I like: “Be the change you want to see in the world”. Those volunteering internships or like so many love to call them Humanitarian internships will give you the opportunity to make a change in the world, by helping people and impacting them. You will light a candle in our way to peace, as you will be able to give the world a better impression about your people and your country.
•           Improve your Resume: Everyone has a diploma, everyone has done professional internships in their own countries and even abroad and everyone is starting to find interest in extracurricular activities like sports and arts… What would distinguish you from the others when applying for a Job? The volunteering internships. As companies are starting to focus on social responsibility, they will be interested in recruiting people who did some social work and community development internship.

This is your best chance to get engaged with AIESEC and see it for what it really is and what it can offer to youth.

It is simple, it is amazing and it is fruitful.

It is simple because with a simple resume, fees and an average English level, you will find yourself spending the best two months of your life working abroad.

It is amazing as it changes your life and shakes your existence.

It’s fruitful as it improves your skills, gives you a lot of opportunities, enlarges your network and improves your resume.

Your life is a story, make it worth telling.

Don’t forget that you can dare to do all of that alone or with your friends.

                                                                                            W.H

Why you should quit school

Since a young age we are forced to go to the nursery where you learn while playing, then school. We are forced to education, no one ever chose to go to school by his own will or have been asked if he wants this education or not. That would explain the high number of dropouts and poor grades. We didn’t choose this education but we can choose, now that we can think and decide, whether to stay there or not. So here are 5 reasons why you should quit school.

•           Boring: We all agree that school is goddamn boring, it kills you every second. You don’t enjoy learning anything, it has nothing interesting. School bores people to death, I always look to the classroom after an hour of studying and it looks like the end of Macbeth. You can try so hard to find something amazing in school, in the subjects you study, you want to find something fun to do, something to help you cope with the routine but all you do is getting more and more depressed because there is no hope at all.
•           Stupidity and lack of creativity: At School, there is a disease that spreads faster than the speed of light; it is called Stupidity. You can be so smart and so creative but after a while in our education system you will end up like the others, the subject you study don’t need smart people they need work horses. You can be so creative but with our education system, your mind will freeze and if you don’t use it in some extra curriculum activities, you will end up with no ability to think, imagine and create.
•           Start professional life: if anyone tells you that education is the most important thing in your professional life, is lying through his teeth… Actually, a minimum of knowledge is needed for the work you will do, the rest, which is the biggest part; you will learn it on the field by experience. Sometimes, you don’t even need to work in the field you studied… Plus, professional life is more interesting because you are learning by doing, you actually realize something and can experience that feeling of achieving a goal, you are not living in theories and within the professional life you learn things that are way more interesting than what you learn at school.
•           Joblessness: The examples are countless and you can check around you, ask yourself how many people who have degrees and still at home or working on things they deserve way better job than that. Why do we need a degree we can’t use? Why spend 18 years in education and then find no job in the field we should work in? Why study when we can’t use what we learnt in a good job? Why study at all? Why not start working without this piece of paper that took us almost half a decade to get?
•           Prison: You are a Prisoner! Yes, you are. Ask yourself, why do you feel so obliged to go to school every day? You are forced to wake up 7 am every morning, with a lack of sleep and a lack of energy, to spend the whole day at school where you can’t even concentrate on what you are studying? Why are they punishing us, threatening us, bullying us, giving us orders? Why are we obliged to assist to subjects we don’t like with the system they want us to follow? Why can’t we choose what to study and what not to? Why are we forced to be present even when we don’t feel like doing that? Why are we prisoners of a studying system that made us nothing but slaves, to model us and make us the brainless machines they want us to be?

Schools ruined our lives, destroyed our minds, took from us our imagination, sucked our creativity and gave us nothing but stupidity…

Let’s leave it, let’s do something amazing with our live. Let’s live as long as we can…

                                                                                         W.H

Why you should be single on Valentine's Day (boycott)

Here comes the day some women wait for every year. Here comes the day men have nightmares about every night: Valentine’s Day or as we can call it the Judgement day. As men will never know if women will be satisfied by what they’ll do and offer, and women will never stop worrying about what their men will do and if they’re going to forget the important day. So here are 5 reasons why you should be single on Valentine’s Day:

•           It is not the only day to show love: Actually you’ve heard that a lot, it is something men say to avoid buying gifts and spending money… However it is true, if love exists, it should be there every day and celebrated every single moment not just one time a year, if love exists it should be all year long and doesn't need to be over-proved that day. So stop being so silly and start being a little bit different, stop believing what others believe and stop following their ideas and stay Single on that day, and then you can go find love or a new GF or whatever the hell you want to do. Or keep your relationship interesting and filled with love daily.
•           It is a Stupid invention: What is the use of creating a day for lovers? In this part I am not talking about love and it being an every day celebration not a one day a year thing. I am talking about the use of creating a day for a thing no one is sure it exists and so many people are discussing this issue. What is the use of creating a day for couples who aren’t even in love? I guess we are always following things without even asking why and how they happened. So for that you have to boycott it and stay single.
•           You are better than all of this: Have you ever asked yourself, why are you in couple in the first place? Have you ever asked yourself why does your couple have to act like all the people? Have you ever asked yourself who the hell is Valentine? Aren’t you better than him (wink for someone :p)? Aren’t you too good to be in a relationship? Don’t you want to be free? Alone? Without someone who will do nothing but bore you and make your day miserable?
•           It is Expensive: Gifts are expensive, especially when women wait for an event for a year… They expect the best thing so they can feel proud in front of their friends. Dinner is expensive. Champagne is Expensive. The hotel room is expensive. The look on your face when she tells you she is on her period is Priceless… Plus think about the return on investment? What will you get if you spend so much money on her in that stupid day? I strongly believe you deserve money, you can get sex without being in a relationship and there’s a saying I love: “Roses are red, Violets are Blue, Vodka costs less, than a dinner for two”.
•           It is so much more fun to be single on Valentine’s Day: Actually you can have fun by throwing rock on other lovers in parks and public spaces… You can make jokes about lovers and stupid people believing in that stupid day. You can finally be happy when a lot of people are suffering. Plus there are many fun things to do on Valentine’s Day: watch the champions’ league and/or the UEFA Cup, go to watch “A good day to Die Hard”… So why miss all this and choose suffering by yourself.

Actually Valentine’s Day is not that useless, it is better than comedy movies. It is a pleasure to see this huge number of stupid people doing the same thing in the same day.

Stop losing money for stupid things, stop losing time on meaningless stuff, stop following others like a fool… Be yourself, be happy, be unique, and be single.

                                                                              W.H

Why weed should be legalized

The problem everywhere is that weed is not legalized. Especially in Tunisia where people get sent to jail and pay money for smoking a joint and they are not even caught with the joint. Blood test is enough to send you to jail even if you smoked weed a month ago. There are millions of reasons why weed should be legalized and I am sure that my friends will give me at least ten more reasons; however I chose these ones because I find them the most important. So here are 5 reasons why weed should be legalized.

•           Happiness: Smoking weed is amazing. It gives you the opportunity to feel happy for a while. You can easily know when a man is High, because he will be simply laughing. It helps the man cope with his stress. With weed, they will be a lot more happiness, so less drama and a more love. You can take for example, Reggae singers they are always singing about optimism, love, and ways to redemption and path to better places.
•           Minding their own business: Afraid that people are so much interested in politics, conspiracy theories and religious stuff? Give them Weed. Weed is the best solution to make a man mind his own business, find ways to feel happier and to have fun and he will not focus on complicated stuff. They will be focusing on their daily life issues and how to cope with daily routine and will become better people by following the weed ethics. Yes you will have many freedom fighters but it will be about basic shit.
•           Economy: No one can deny this, weed is good for economy. It is cheap, it can be prepared without huge cost, and it can be sold in good prices and huge quantities which will make the economy go back to track once again and become better. People use it often and when they know they don’t have to buy it for a lot of money; they will use it more often.
•           Creativity and arts: Yes your people will be a bunch of philosophers but believe me it will be about stuff like: The meaning of human existence, Love and beauty. You will have many artist, reggae singers… You will have poets and philosophers. You will discover so many talents in the people around you, talents that will be brought to light only by weed. It gives them the opportunity to give all they've got on amazing stuff.
•           It is Harmless:  I know what I am talking about. It is true, because compared to alcohol, who is legal by the way, weed is really harmless, no danger to your stomach, no throwing up and no hangovers. Plus weed is not addictive, yes you will ask for more because you will like what you feel, but you can stop whenever you want. It makes you more careful, I watched an experience when they once gave a drunken woman a car to drive and she had to go a certain distance and stop before hitting a wall she actually did hit it. The next day they gave her weed to smoke and when repeating the same thing, she stopped long before the wall. Finally, you will never overdose from smoking weed, it is humanly impossible. Plus it is used as medicine, such as medical marijuana.

Actually, Weed is the only solution for us, for the youth and for all the people now. It should be legalized and it should be for everyone, as it helps the person and the country. I love the saying: “Give them freedom, give them Weed” and “Why do you take my ganja Away?” or the Tunisian saying: “Let the game”( سيّب اللعبة ).

Legalize it

                                                               W.H

why you should hate Angelica even if you don’t know her

Angelica is a Ukrainian girl, who I met in Tunisia the summer of 2012 when she came for a humanitarian internship. 2 Months were enough for me to know everything I need to hate her.

Actually, many people will ask why is he even writing such a thing on his blog when almost no one knows her. My answer is simple: I believe she should be hated by everyone, by the whole world, the whole universe, even those who don’t know her. She should become Public enemy number 1. You may say she is not that bad, no one can ever be this bad to be hated by everyone on the earth so here are 5 reasons why you should hate Angelica even if you don’t know her:

•           She is trying to be Tunisian: Stop it with your stupid Lé lé, you will never be Tunisian, it is hard for you :p It is impossible! Blablabla is not helping you either.
•           She is Ugly: She may look so beautiful and amazing in the pictures on Facebook or VK but believe me I met her, she is ugly… She actually looks like a Boy.. She is like the Gay brother I never wanted to have. She is proud of having a big ass, which no one likes by the way… She is fat; I will keep on telling her that she needs to work out.
•           She is violent: She is dangerous, never try to get in a fight with her, do not even try to play with her… She will cut you with her nails, and as she is fat she will keep on hitting you until she beats you and leave you with scars…
•           She thinks she always does good work: She is always trying to show you she is amazing and she does good and excellent work while she is never good enough. She never is, never was and never will be… Not in her studies (she will not pass this year I am sure) nor in her working experience, her term as Vice president is the proof.
•           She is Stupid: I’ve been all over the world, met like millions of people, made a lot of friends and much more enemies. However, I have never ever met someone more stupid than her; yes she is telling me that I am stupid, and probably the most stupid person on earth. She knows that is not true, she knows she is stupid because she has so many silly ideas and thoughts. Plus she thinks so many people love her, while no one does.

She is like the gay brother I never wanted to have, we are brothers and enemies, she Is my dear stupid friend. And even though I hate her and I know that everyone should do the same… I miss her, hope to see you soon Angi… 

Why is everything more reliable than a woman?

Yes men are unreliable and we can’t be trusted. However, we can be excused because the ones blaming us are more unreliable than we are. The sad truth always comes to the light, we can’t hide it and here I am to take off the curtains and expose everything to the lights. Women are so unreliable that everything and anything can be more reliable than them, Hell even a Penguin is better. So here are few of many reasons why anything is more reliable than a woman.

•           Decisions: Have you ever met a creature more indecisive than a woman? Come on, it is impossible. Women change constantly their ideas; actually I don’t know what they change more than the other: their clothes or their ideas. For God sake, be sure of something once in your miserable little lives. They are not sure of their feelings, of their choices, of what they are going to do, of what they did, they can’t decide what to wear, how to act, hell they can’t even be sure of the mood they are in… You can find a woman happy and sad in the same time. I don’t know how is that humanly possible but I am telling you the truth people, I witnessed that.
•           Secrets keeping: Between men and women, is it even possible to think who to trust more? I mean how can you trust someone who can’t keep his mouth shut for 5 minutes? Women have that in their genes, they love to talk, and they love to share with others all the stories that they have. The only problem is that those stories include other people’s secrets… They are not to blame; they were created with this disease. How many times you heard a woman tell you “I am not supposed to tell you this but I trust you”, how many times have you heard “I will tell you something but you have to promise me that It will remain a secret and you can’t tell it to anyone”. But Lady, if it is someone else’s secret and you are telling it to a third part, it is no longer a secret.
•           Fidelity issues: You can call us players; you can call us heartbreakers, playboys and womanizers. However, studies have shown that when a man is in a relationship he is more faithful than a woman. Yes that is true, and it is due to the difficulty of getting in a serious relationship for a man, so once he is in he gives all that he has and he is 100% committed. Yes one of the reasons for divorce is men’s infidelity but hey, women caught cheating is on the top of the list.
•           Manipulation: Can you manipulate a man into doing what you do? Yes and it is not a hard thing to do, however it is easier to do that for a woman because she is usually driven by her feelings and she gives it a lot of importance. Come on who can rely on someone who can be easily manipulated and everyone can use him for his own sake.
•          Self confidence: Women have so a huge problem with self-confidence, it is hard for most of the women to believe that they are capable of doing stuff on their own. In the same path, they have problems with acting on their own, actually women can’t solve their problems by themselves, and they tend to involve pretty much everyone they know in their stories. When men can always get out of troubles by themselves and solve their own problems. They actually tend to run from the world and go to that place in their minds where they are by themselves in order to think about their problems. So how can you rely on someone who has no faith in his capabilities and do nothing by his own.

For these reasons and more, women are unreliable and the only reason I am saying anything can be more reliable than them is that there is no creature or thing on earth that has all these defects at the same time, so even penguins can be more reliable than women. Plus they are cute, for me that counts. 

W.H

Why you should be sad if you are in a distance relationship

They always say love is stronger than everything in this life, with the famous saying “Love conquers all”, however it is not true… Even if there’s love and no matter how strong it is, distance can be a reason for this love to fail! It is going to fail, so here are some reasons why you should be sad if you are getting a distance relationship:

•           Lost dreams: Everything you planned for the future, all the beautiful stuff that you dreamt about will never come true. Actually, not even the silly and the simple ones, because distance will keep you from realizing your dreams, and you know that.
•           The lack of direct contact: You can watch millions of movies about couples doing everything and finally being able to be together, however you don’t really get that. Watch some pictures on Facebook, take a walk and look at all these couples hugging, laughing and kissing each other, while you can’t do that. Well, obviously you can’t feel the same way hugging the monitor and kissing some pictures. You will have an essential part missing, and it is enough to destroy you.
•           ZIP Code Rule: Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend can be using the famous saying “What they don’t know won’t hurt them” and no matter how you have faith in him/her you will start thinking about that. You will start thinking if he or she is cheating on you and you will start making stories and imagining stuff and no matter how much you love him or her, these thoughts will get you to lose some or all of your trust and start asking questions and the problem is that you can never know for sure, because you can’t be there all the time and this will drive you crazy.
•          Return on investment: What do you get for giving so much time for your phone or online conversations? Actually the first months, the love and the passion are still there, you miss him/her and you will do anything to talk for a minute or a second, stay up all night if there’s time difference, but what do you get in return? Is it enough? Does it satisfy your needs? Of course not, it is nothing compared to what other get when meeting their loved ones. And sooner or later you will start asking if he or she is doing the same effort that you are. You feel powerless and hopeless and it is actually a pretty good reason to cry.
•           Dark Future: Break up is the only thing you fear, it is the end… You are afraid to lose her/him, you don’t want to lose all the amazing stuff you had, could’ve had and maybe will have. However, you can see clearly that it is the next step. No matter how hard you try, no matter what you do, the relationship is going to fail. What is worse is that you don’t know if he or she will feel as devastated as you, if he or she will even feel a thing, if he or she did move on already! And that breaks your heart.

It is actually possible even if you are in the same country, you can be in different cities, or in the same city but it is hard for you to see each other and/or to show your love.

It is Obvious that It is going to fail for millions of reasons, I just gave you people few reasons to be sad about and to cry for.

My final advice: Cry, Cry, Cry… It is your only solution.

W.H

Why you should always say nice words to women

Actually people can call it flirting with every single girl you meet, others will call you player and others will say that you are too weak to focus on a single girl. It may be true, if you found that single girl who deserves all your nice words and with whom you are in a relationship and you don’t want to cheat on her. Else you have to keep a nice way of talking with females, even if they can be most of the times annoying, boring, too demanding, pain in the ass and they always find a way to make you angry; so here are 5 reasons why you should always say Nice to women:

•            Women are God’s most beautiful creation: (if there is a God) Actually, Women are the best creature on earth. Hell, they are even more beautiful than the Nature itself. They are the finest creation of whoever created earth and the life on it. So in sort of an appreciation for what he created, we should thank him every day and keep on loving its creature and tell women nice beautiful words... Because simply beauty is to be worshiped.
•           With all their defects, deep inside they deserve every single word: As I said before, women have so many defects that could make you angry and complicate your life, however, it is obvious that deep inside every woman even if she acts like a stone cold Bitch, has a heart and has weaknesses and most of all every woman is sensitive... So your nice words, even if they can be lies, find their way to her heart and will make her dream and feel like she is a princess.
•           She can be the one: Actually, every single woman you meet can be the chosen one; you will never know when and how you will meet your other half. You will meet the one when you least expect it, so don’t miss the chance as the one you are talking to, can be your future, can be the queen of your heart so treat her like one.
•           Most of us are born with the skills needed to flirt, why waste it? Even if few of us know how to use their flirting skills in a perfect way, pretty much every one of us is born with the skills needed, so why waste it? Why not use it in a way that can help us keep it and improve it and in the same time, makes the women happy? Come on people, it is useful and fun...
•           Self Esteem: That’s the most important reason. What is a woman without her self esteem? Without self confidence? A woman is hundreds of times more beautiful, sexier and more attractive when she is self-confident. So if you want a woman to look beautiful and keep on looking that way, you have to worship the beauty, and our nice words can do nothing but keep that self esteem high, which will help us have more beautiful Girls. So Guys, just do it, it is important.

My last words to women: Being beautiful liars is not that bad, we do it for your own sake. 

W.H

Why you shouldn't date an intelligent woman

We love them beautiful, we love them Perfect... Actually, men can’t stop loving women, and we all know that we can’t find similar women; each and every one of them is unique in her way. However, there are some similarities we can find, and the question is what is the most annoying Defect or quality (because yes a quality can be annoying too) we can find in a woman.

For me intelligence is one of the most annoying Qualities a woman can have, I know it is rare but we can find intelligent woman and here are 5 Reasons why you shouldn’t date an intelligent woman:

•            She may be smarter than you: If the girl is smarter than you, you will be an easy target for manipulation. She will remind you every day that you are dumb and that she is intelligent because we all know that girls can’t help it but to say all that goes in their mind without even thinking about it and they actually say it in the worst way ever. (This reason is for dumb men)
•         She will complicate your life: By thinking about every single detail and trying to find the meaning of every single action, she will always find a way to make you angry because she will see signs and understand stuff that isn’t even there.
•           She will haunt your conversations with complicated questions: Talking about the meaning of life, the existence of God, the life after death, the reason why Einstein couldn’t finish the time machine and if there’s life on Mars, are not really needed in a couple and are for sure not the perfect subjects to discuss in a restaurant where the man paid half of his salary to give the woman a perfect romantic dinner, and are for sure not the subjects to discuss on bed while the man is trying to kiss you. (I chose kiss on purpose)
•           Smart women tend to think more about the future: Actually if you date a smart girl especially before she starts working, she will always be thinking about her future, the rest of her studies, the possibilities, the chances, future work, her CV... So she will not enjoy the moment and she will ruin the fun...
•           The main reason: She will think about Love... To explain this sentence I have to tell you that the studies have shown that men are usually more faithful than women in a relationship, it may seem strange but it is the truth. Actually there is a famous saying:”Women think about love, men actually love”. Yes men are not emotional and they feel less than women, but once they are in love, they are 100% in. Women, and especially smart women, tend to think about love, tend to think about emotions more than feeling them, more than actually experiencing them and living the moment. So They think about romantic situation but actually ruin it with over thinking, love to be in a strong relationship but ruin it with over thinking, love to be loved but question this love, Love to be told Nice words but they always think they are only words and the man is lying or exaggerating.

Please Ladies, Stop over thinking, you are not made for that.

My final advice to men: Take them Stupid they are more fun.

                                                                                                                                                                 W.H

Avoid intelligent women; they are a pain in the ass