Why you should be sad if you are in a distance relationship

They always say love is stronger than everything in this life, with the famous saying “Love conquers all”, however it is not true… Even if there’s love and no matter how strong it is, distance can be a reason for this love to fail! It is going to fail, so here are some reasons why you should be sad if you are getting a distance relationship:

•           Lost dreams: Everything you planned for the future, all the beautiful stuff that you dreamt about will never come true. Actually, not even the silly and the simple ones, because distance will keep you from realizing your dreams, and you know that.
•           The lack of direct contact: You can watch millions of movies about couples doing everything and finally being able to be together, however you don’t really get that. Watch some pictures on Facebook, take a walk and look at all these couples hugging, laughing and kissing each other, while you can’t do that. Well, obviously you can’t feel the same way hugging the monitor and kissing some pictures. You will have an essential part missing, and it is enough to destroy you.
•           ZIP Code Rule: Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend can be using the famous saying “What they don’t know won’t hurt them” and no matter how you have faith in him/her you will start thinking about that. You will start thinking if he or she is cheating on you and you will start making stories and imagining stuff and no matter how much you love him or her, these thoughts will get you to lose some or all of your trust and start asking questions and the problem is that you can never know for sure, because you can’t be there all the time and this will drive you crazy.
•          Return on investment: What do you get for giving so much time for your phone or online conversations? Actually the first months, the love and the passion are still there, you miss him/her and you will do anything to talk for a minute or a second, stay up all night if there’s time difference, but what do you get in return? Is it enough? Does it satisfy your needs? Of course not, it is nothing compared to what other get when meeting their loved ones. And sooner or later you will start asking if he or she is doing the same effort that you are. You feel powerless and hopeless and it is actually a pretty good reason to cry.
•           Dark Future: Break up is the only thing you fear, it is the end… You are afraid to lose her/him, you don’t want to lose all the amazing stuff you had, could’ve had and maybe will have. However, you can see clearly that it is the next step. No matter how hard you try, no matter what you do, the relationship is going to fail. What is worse is that you don’t know if he or she will feel as devastated as you, if he or she will even feel a thing, if he or she did move on already! And that breaks your heart.

It is actually possible even if you are in the same country, you can be in different cities, or in the same city but it is hard for you to see each other and/or to show your love.

It is Obvious that It is going to fail for millions of reasons, I just gave you people few reasons to be sad about and to cry for.

My final advice: Cry, Cry, Cry… It is your only solution.

W.H